Fathering a Second Child

Finding the Father you want to be is far more about looking at how you experienced fathering as a child and deciding what you would have wanted at the same time.

In the situation where a mother has had her second baby, it is a massive challenge for her psychologically and she is quite likely not to be coping because the baby screaming wakes up the screaming baby in herself and you need to be able to contain it.

Whatever you do you do...you go in and contain it for her as the father and you take it on the chin and be a real man and keep her safe until she has begun to adjust to the situation.